Baby Mama’s

This is a topic I feel that all men should tune into because you have a woman or maybe more than one woman, with who you share children with. And in some cases you may no longer be with the mother of your children anymore but in a current relationship with someone else. In certain situations, you’re finding yourselves being tossed in the middle of a battlefield between your girlfriend and your children’s mother because one doesn’t like the other, and they’re arguing back and forth. And the reason for their hostility towards each other is because you’re still sleeping around with both of them. (Though that’s not always the case), but if you want to have a clear conscience and a heavy burden lifted off your shoulders, if you wanna live in peace then it’s time to be a man and put all the nonsense behind you. Some boundaries needs to be set and you can make that happen by first being truthful. If you do not see yourself getting back together with the mother of your kids, then stop sleeping with her and getting her feelings involved knowing that you’re with someone else because she’ll only become angry and cause problems in your current relationship. Not only that but you’re selling her a dream because in her mind y’all are getting back together knowing that deep down inside you really don’t want to be with her. But instead you should make everything plain and clear, letting her know where things really stand between the two of you even if it’s just to coparent and nothing more. And if she cannot accept it then that would be on her and not on you because you’ve done your part. When certain baby Mama’s refuse to let go, some can be very petty and childish and would figure out ways to hurt and destroy a man. They figure that if they can’t have him then nobody will, and they’ll run and take out child support on him knowing that he’s taking care of his responsibilities, but all because he doesn’t want to be with you, then you try to be vindictive. Mothers, you can’t make nobody want you and your attitude should be that as long as he’s taking care of his kids then that’s all that matters to me! But no that’s not your attitude because you would deny him the right to see his kids and would call the police on him for no apparent reason all because you’re mad and in your feelings. And fellas if you have children by a woman who acts this way then I would advise you to go through the legal system to have it set up to have visitation with your kids as often as you like because it can be done since they want to be so petty. Not all baby mother’s are like that though because there are many who are mature and classy, and can accept the situation as it is and still be cool with their children’s father without sleeping with him. And if a man is going to bring his children around his current girlfriend, then I think it would be fair for the mother and the girlfriend to meet if they are mature adults because the mother has every right to know who it is that her children are going around. If you’re no longer sleeping with the mother of your kids and she’s okay with the fact that you’ve moved on then why not make it happen? By doing it that way then everybody can be happy including the kids.

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